Wednesday, February 29, 2012

An Eye-Opening Book


"The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts" by Gary Chapman

I just listened to the audio version of this book this week. This is a really good one on relationships, and I'm sure would be helpful for every married couple. Dr. Chapman explains that we all express, and recognize, love differently. He calls these different ways of expressing love, love languages and that there are essentially 5 languages (and each has dialects). They are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Gifts, and Acts of Service. He explains that once spouses learn to speak each other's love language, their "love tanks" will be full and their marriages will be happier. He also talks about the lifespan of the high of being in love and that afterward love is a choice. This book does categorize people, somewhat, into personality types, but it does help with understanding others, and ourselves.